Have you stopped to consider how your habits and hurts bring so much pain to your life? Much of the pain caused by these two success robbers are subconscious and psychological. Some pain caused by your hurts and habits can be affecting other members of your sphere of influence!
There are some of you whose entire life is spent living in the past. You regret all the things you have done. The past has you so bound that it seems impossible to get on with the present. If a habit was developed during the past, most likely you are still living in it. Psychologists tell us that chemical dependent persons have a tendency to remain in the chronological age at which time they became dependent on the chemical. This could explain why a 61-year old at the bar tries to act and dress like 16–other than being dyslexic. Continue reading You Can Learn How To Live In The Present
Most of you
have hurts, and many have habits. Both can control some of the things you do. Not all habits are bad, but all are habits that
cause you to do the things you do and be the person you are. The only way to control hurts and habits is to make a quality commitment to overcome and change the habits and hurts to positive ways of life. Continue reading Recovery From Habits Hurts Takes Commitment
Do you have habits and hurts that keep you from being the real you that you know you can be? Are things in your life giving you a sense of loss and failure. Have you known your entire life that you had a destiny to fill some role; yet, because of some habit or hurt, you feel you have fallen short? Continue reading Are Habits and Hurts Leaving You Powerless?
One of the hard parts of staying clean and/or sober is trying to find a support group. You need someone with whom you can talk and discuss the issues that confront you each day. I would like to hear from you. You can leave a comment on this page, and i will answer. I’m not trying to sell you anything. Everything I have in relationship to habits and hurts can be had for free. Continue reading Let’s Discuss The Biggest Issue In Your Life
It’s taken several years to write this because my heart breaks for the women discussed here. Abuse comes in all forms, and its side effects and wounds are far-reaching. I’ve spent the last 40 plus years in prison ministry, and the ladies I have talked to and surveyed show an eighty percent abuse ratio: physical, sexual and/or mental. These ladies have lived lives unimaginable. Its like the question, “which came first, the chicken or the egg?” Did the abuse and lifestyle contribute to incarceration, or did incarceration happen because of the abuse? The predicament for these ladies are most definitely the hidden effects of abuse. Can abuse be avoided? Continue reading Can The Side Effects of Abuse Be Avoided
You spend much time and money searching for solutions to your hurts and habits without finding a good source. The outcome of your search leaves you frustrated and bothered. See, I don’t know of anyone who doesn’t have at least one of the above. I lived with a habit for many years before I was able to break it. Are you good at keeping your habit or hurt a secret. I was pretty good at it! Continue reading How To Learn About Habits Hurts Online With a Good Outcome
Over the past ten years my experience has taught that there are distinct stages of recovery for the alcoholic. I am not a doctor of psychologist. I am a recovering alcoholic who has worked with recovery groups of men and women for the past ten years. Therefore, I have my own experiences and those of others from which to draw Continue reading Five Stages of Alcohol Recovery
Even if there is no immediate concern, you should change your eating habits now. Some of you have problems with habits that destroy your health. Eating too much of what you think are good things, i.e. sugar, carbs, may cause serious heart problems. Many Americans take pills every day for high blood pressure, cholesterol, afib, and heart palpation simply because they have abused food. Diet is the penalty for exceeding the feed limit. We’ve been talking about habits, hurts, mistakes, miseries and (bad) memories. Continue reading How To Change My Eating Habits?
Have you noticed that your hurts are keys to some of your habits? It is possible that one hurt can cause your habit. Could one of your hurts be low self-esteem? If so, a habit is most likely related.
People with Low self-esteem tend to need a fix or a couple drinks to give them the courage to ask a lady for a date. Continue reading Why Hurts Can Be Keys to Habits